7 Foods You Should NEVER Eat On A First Date!

7 Foods You Should NEVER Eat On A First Date!


There are foods you should never ever
order on a date. My name is Anna and I run an online finishing school called School Of Affluence. I teach women high society’s skills and
how to become a more elegant and refined version of yourself. So if you want to start your
transformation just visit www.SchoolOfAffluence.com So the number one thing
and this is definitely on my top two list. So here it goes. Do not eat raw onion, anything will raw onion
when you are on a date with a man. It is pretty self-explanatory. You have to avoid things like ceviche,
like guacamole. They even put raw onion in the salads,
which I absolutely dislike. What happens is that raw onions
have a very strong and particular smell. A smell that doesn’t really go away instantly,
even if you brush your teeth. This also goes along if you’re cooking with raw onion. If you, for instance, chopping a raw onion, you should always wear gloves because your fingers are going to smell for days. Well if we’re having a conversation about Mr. Onion,
let’s talk about his smelly relative too, which also is in my top two of no-no foods to eat. Actually, I never eat raw onion or at number two, we have garlic. Yes ladies, I do not eat raw garlic either because that’s another extremely smelly food
that you must avoid because this is a smell that is going
to really stick to you. It’s going to evaporate through your skin
for days after you eat garlic. I know that in some cultures,
you cook everything with garlic which is nothing that I’m trying to dismiss. Because I’m not saying your food is wrong or anything but cooked garlic is a little bit more okay
than raw garlic. If you can avoid any garlic,
you’re really going to stay safe. Because like I said, garlic is very very smelly
and it evaporates from your skin. It really sticks to your skin, it smells. I mean, this might not be the most elegant
conversation we’re having on this channel. But for instance, when your food is
digesting well after you have eaten Then you might come up a bubble in your throat, something that we call a burp, right? But it may be a small silent little one. But if you have eaten garlic,
that bubble in your throat ladies, are going to have a very unpleasant smell. So when you are in the company of a man,
you do not want to have any body odors, any smells coming from you. And that’s actually the issue with garlic and onion. I’m sorry to say it but if you want
to leave a good impression, you better think about what you eat. The number three might actually surprise some of you Because I would not advise you to eat salad
on your first date or whenever you’re trying to eat elegantly. For the simple reason, that salad is actually
almost a tricky food to eat. Depending how it is prepared,
depending how big the salad leaves are, it might be very hard to take a bite-sized piece and put it in your mouth
without everything just unfolding in the air and splashing dressing on you and so on. And the number-one rule with eating salad is that you are not allowed
to cut a salad with your knife. Salad is supposed to be eaten the way there. So oftentimes, salad is actually only eaten with fork. So you are going to be in a hard situation if like I said, the leaves are huge, there is plenty of dressing. How are you gonna put that a big piece of salad
into your mouth without making a total mess? So don’t take that risk because we don’t want you to be all stained and lose your elegance while you’re trying to leave a good impression. Number four, Foie gras. Why Foie gras? One of the things that I personally
think is absolutely inappropriate is to eat something that has been prepared
in a very very extremely cruel way. I know the meat industry today is horrible
and so is the dairy and egg industry as well. So I’m not not acknowledging those things
but I do really want to make a stance for Foie gras because I feel like
a lot of you are really not aware. And many times people go to sophisticated
restaurants and they order foie gras because it’s this kind of affluent dish
that you are so sophisticated if you eat it.; And they just want to impress other people
and for me, that’s just pure stupid. Because in reality, you’re supporting
horrible animal cruelty. When these poor ducks are
raised to be a force-fed you, you have no idea, like I’m not really gonna go that far. but I really want you to know that Foie gras is extremely animal cruel.
so don’t order foie gras, you will not be sophisticated,
you will just look uneducated. And today, everybody’s taking responsibility
for our planet, for being animal-friendly and the way we treat our planet. That is now the new level of being chic,
so make sure you are that educator person who is responsible with their actions. Number five, spaghetti Do you know how to eat spaghetti elegantly? And no, you’re not supposed to east
spaghetti with spoon and fork. That is wrong. Spaghetti is eaten with fork only
and there is a very particular trick to how you can make that work. But ladies, I can tell you one thing. Unless you are a pro at eating spaghetti,
unless you have been practicing this for years or you are Italian,
do not eat spaghetti. Because there is a big chance,
you’re going to make a big mess and the worst is when you are wearing a light-colored outfit. Maybe you’re wearing a white beautiful dress
and then you’re eating spaghetti with tomato sauce and you were twisting it
and you’re trying to eat it and splash tomato sauce on your white beautiful dress, horrible! And then your date feels almost ruined. So don’t take that risk, it’s not worth it. Spaghetti is truly more of an advanced food, so save it for when you are alone. Number six, fast food, the type of food that is often eaten with fingers
such as burger, nachos, club sandwich. These type of foods are first of all,
they’re not very elegant to eat. They are like I said, a little bit fast-food type of food. Can you imagine yourself,
a sophisticated woman, eating a burger? I’m not saying you are not allowed
to eat this type of foods. But I would say that this is the
type of food you would perhaps eat more in private, when you are with close
friends or family members, comfort food basically. You don’t order this type
of things in fine restaurants and especially not if you are there on the date. They are very messy to eat. You could eat a burger with cutlery
but it is going to be tricky. And your elbows are going to be up in the air and you will be having to use a very strong, probably steak knife
to be able to cut through those thick layers. Or for instance, nachos is something
that you cannot eat with utensils. You have to eat that with hands and with all the cheeses and sauces and guacamole and tomatoes
and this and that, good luck really, good luck! And then we have the famous club sandwich,
now how on earth are you supposed to eat that thing without
everything is just like sliding out to the side? It’s really really hard,
so save yourself a headache. Don’t order this type of food,
it’s just not worth it now. Now lastly, number seven I think we live in a society today
where a lot of people or maybe I would say more and more people are getting
sensitive stomachs, they get IBS and they get bloated for every single thing, regardless if it’s because of gluten or something else. This is unfortunate but I do want to spell it out that you are aware of when you go on dates
or when you know if for instance, you are going to be intimate with the man and so on,
that you don’t eat things that are hard to digest. I want you to think about
that you don’t eat these things when you are going on dates or maybe when
you’re going out to party and you’re wearing a beautiful tight dress. Eating things that are hard to digest and
that will really make you bloated, these things can be different
for different types of people. Though my list is not of course set in stone
but I know for sure there are many types of vegetables that can make you
feel very bloated especially if you’re not used to eating vegetables, like broccoli, cauliflower as an example. I remember once, I went to a raw vegan restaurant
for the first time many many years ago and I did not have a great experience after. Because my stomach was not prepared,
not ready for that type of high fiber food, so I really had to cancel my plans after. So you really have to take these things into account. Other things would be for instance,
if you are sensitive to bread or pasta or worst of all lentils and beans. I don’t know many people
who can process lentils and beans in a very good smooth way. Avoid anything like that. Maybe it’s not worth having lentils
and the same goes for any heavy food, anything that makes you feel
like you gained 5 kilos. It’s just not worth it. So save that for days when
you are more comfortable with a person or for casual days with your family or friends, not when you want to be elegant and not when you want to be on top of your game,
like us, elegant ladies always are. If you want to learn more about
these things and about transformation, make sure you are subscribed to my
Youtube channel and also ladies, make sure you visit www.SchoolOfAffluence.com where I teach more in-depth about all these topics. Now if you haven’t watched my video on
How To Eat Breakfast Elegantly, make sure you watch that one now
after this video because I’m planning to see you in that video!

100 Replies to “7 Foods You Should NEVER Eat On A First Date!”

  1. I am vegan and enjoy a variety of raw foods, like fruit. Bloating from eating foods that are raw come from a lack of "heat" and a weakening of the stomach acid. Take ginger candies with you, take a couple after eating a raw, or cold, food and you will not have any bloating. You can also order a hot tea to go with your meal, this will help as well.

  2. My Latina self is screaming but who eats garlics?! Also eating beans is never a good idea for any dates in general unless you’re really used to eating beans.

  3. How true and still when I go to a restaurant if I order by myself I have to ask for no garlic and onion, etc and it sounds weird for ppl!! Do you ask directly ? thx

  4. What about soup? An issue similar the "spaghetti debacle" could happen more with soups, especially when you're nervous and your hands are shaking. Oh lord my head is spinning think of what could go wrong 😵

  5. I once ate a bugur with a guy, and guess what? A TOTAL MESS. Oh I still cringe when I remember 😤 It was my first time visiting that restaurant and they filled my burgur with sauce, like the bugur was swimming in sauce… Few minutes later, my clothes swam in sauce too 😂

  6. I absolutely agree with you… on everything. Many years ago I heard that Queen Elizabeth never eats garlic and onions for the reasons you stated. And she is correct. When you are with a new date or new people, NO, NO, NO!!!! No one ever had to tell me this. I love you for being animal conscience about the Goose liver. Thank you! I would never ever order that (I don't even order veal), even when I was young. I have such empathy towards animals, I can't even believe how we treat them, it is just so awful. I was a vegetarian for 13 years. I am not now, but I try to be careful with my diet. Also, I am 100% Italian and I never ordered spaghetti when I was dating, or tomato sauce on anything. Even though I am an expert, you just can''t take the chance of being in a beautiful light colored dress and have the sauce flick on you. It just happens. Beans are also a no no. My husband and I will not even eat anything like that the day before we are going out to the ballet or to the sympathy or anywhere where we have to sit in a crowd for any length of time. It just is not worth it. Burgers and tacos, I just don't each food like that in public, maybe burgers at home, once in a great while. You did forget one food, and that is corn on the cob. You can not believe how many times people in America eat that. I will not even eat that with family members around. I was at a backyard cookout a few weeks ago and they served corn on the cob, I just wouldn't take it. I will eat it at home, but that is all. And lastly, yes, salad is a nuisance because you are not suppose to cut the lettuce. However, now that I am married, when we both go out on our date nights we will cut the lettuce, there is no way either one of us is going to put a big piece of lettuce in our mouth. Otherwise, I will not order a salad if we are with a crowd of people. If I make salad at home, I make sure the pieces are bite size pieces. Thank you for stating the obvious. You give the best advise.

  7. Ana you are amazing!! You are extremely educated. I follow and have friends that are very educated regarding the world's problems and the cruelty behind so many industries. Thank you for speaking on this platform! 👏👏💚as much as everyone can people should be plantbased! To go vegan, it s the biggest movement now✨

  8. I am so happy that you addressed foie gras. I avoid ordering it at all costs but some airlines serve it anyway in business 🤷🏼‍♀️

  9. So what to eat? Risotto minus garlic? Doubt any restaurant would serve that. Any cruciferous vegetables such as brocolli will also cause smelly breath, asparagus too… even meat like steak isn't great for breath. Just veg like steamed potatoes and carrots seem safe …maybe a bit of cheese and fruit. 🙁

  10. I couldn't agree more for that inappropriate food. How about a video for food that you would recommend us to choose in an elegant dinner?

  11. Drink a yogurt or something dairy an hour before raw onion or garlic to prevent the smell. Eat papaya before meat or hard to digest foods too. Carry alka-seltzer for any other emergency. Sometimes we don’t get to chose what’s in the menu like in the case of Weddings so a couple of these will keep you safe!

  12. The more appropriate word is "studpidly" not stupid. It would be rude to call someone "stupid" while it is considered appropriate to point out their manner of behaving.

  13. Maybe is just my taste but since I’m on this world I always hated garlic and onions because the smell 😂, I don’t even get why people live them so much.
    I prefer leeks because are more delicate when you cook them and less stinky, but I always avoid smelly food when I working, first because they make me feel uncomfortable and second because I work in a luxury boutique and of course I have to look nice and smell nice.
    Ps and as a Vegan I always thought eating something that comes from a body is not chic! Thanks Anna for saying it!!! 🙏🏻

  14. i suggest you to not eat much…i mean not starving yourself but leave a hole in your stomach because you are not here because you were hungry but for the conversation and the man

  15. An elegant woman must order a glass of flat spring water with a single slice of lemon and a straw. Sip slowly and smile while your affluent man chows down on his
    Juicy steak.

  16. Even ordering meet with bones such as chicken wings. Eating with hands is messy and it's kinder ridiculous slashing that meat ouuta the bone with fork and knife

  17. As much as we don’t like to hear all of this, she is absolutely logical and pragmatic in all of this…..here is the exception…IF MAYBE your date is eating the same thing..(oh except for the fois gras…and don’t correct him if he has ordered it or while he is eating it..save that for a later time) ……Her vids are just trying to give you a leg up so to speak, against the competition…..

  18. Thank you so much for mentioning foie gras. It's about time that cruelty goes out of fashion finally. There is nothing attractive about being an uncaring, heartless individual. Especially women who are more caring and empathetic by nature.. if I was a man I would never consider a future with a woman who turns a blind eye to the suffering of animals

  19. I actually found it rather hilarious to listen to u tAlk about all this…I agree with u, but it was really funny to hear u talk about it .

  20. So funny but I have been happily married for 30 years AND I started watching these videos…..These pointers could be helpful to anyone at any stage of their lives…..She reminds me of things that I have always known but sadly have chosen to ignore…She is refreshing (and I love when you put a little humor in there because being elegant doesn’t mean you can’t be fun) and although some things take extra effort, I can renew my efforts to employ them…(now that the children have grown and I have more time to focus)…

  21. Correct at every level Ms Bey…we are what we eat, certain foods create appalling by-product smells best avoided. As a former tutor on etiquette…foods such as lobster, caviar or truffles must never be ordered on a date unless the gentleman suggests that we do so, ordering expensive items from a menu make a "lady" look cheap…a lady must behave like such items are a way of life for her and therefor decline such display of vulgarity!!! as for foi-gras or shark finn's please don't even consider consuming these foods, the cruelty involved is beyond any decent human being.
    Thank you for your amazing videos…Countess Saskia

  22. Sometimes, got soup will make my nose run. Please avoid. Also, with some brands, the geese feathers are plucked when the geese are still alive. Never buy.

  23. Hey worse of all is sushi 😱🙈🤪 nobody can eat sushi elegantly (unless you can dominate chopsticks and soy sauce 🤪😂)

  24. Hello Anna and all girls here! Today I bought a new beautiful brown/black mixed maxi skirt for winter. Which coat would you recommend me? I have no idea what which coat would go with the skirt. Any ideas? Would be so thankful!! 🙂😘

  25. Anna, could you make a video on foods and drinks you would actually order on a date? It would be so useful! Thank you as always❤️

  26. 8. Your date's credit card
    9. Your waiter's ass
    10. The hands of your enemies

    The last one got me on my first date, ngl. It went pretty bad.

  27. U was trying to be nice . But its is called breaking wind. Some have another for it but I rather call it breaking wind. Some foods are best left alone while you are on your first date. Get a drink or something but leave the food alone lol

  28. Thank you for bringing up the Fois Gras subject.
    You never fail to amaze us.
    Every video you post there is something new I learn and admire about you. Ⓥ 🌱

  29. Hi Anna. Thank you for these powerful tips. On clothes though, please share how you pair up your clothes. We always see your tops… do you wear jeans? Like in this video??

  30. I can't believe so many people are delusional. This lady has a channel dedicated to posing to get rich guys… Her story started with landing a rich guy once and she did not want to go back on that lifestyle. Why are people not calling her arrogant and snobby? She only considers rich guys worth dating. There are probably nicer and smarter guys out which she will never look at because they can't 'provide' a vacation overseas every month, a new handbag every week. This is just disgusting behavior. She talks about guys' money with terms like 'old' and 'new' but she never even mentions 'dirty' or 'clean' because all she cares about is the money this guy has and how he treats her. If a guy has 3 things, this girls loves him. Money, loyalty and time for her. In return she provides, a hole in the bank account. People appreciate her because she knows what she wants and she tries to get it.

    Ok first of all how dumb do you have to be to want something as stupid as her (referring to money)? If that is the most important thing for you, then you are shallow and a very very disgusting human. Some people want nothing else but to help people and are out leaving the comfort of their homes to maybe build a well in Africa. Some people spend sleepless nights studying, trying to be as smart as they can. And you just spend your time thinking how you can make a good impression on rich guys so you don't have to even think about anything. But I digress.

    The idea is just because you want something and you spend time thinking of how you will get it (or even doing something to get it) it doesn't make you worth appreciation. For example, you might want something unethical to rob a bank. You can plan for month and succeed it might have even been a good plan but you are still a robber and that is not worth appreciating. Same here. If all you want is money, then you are not worth appreciation.

  31. Anna please address talking with your hands! As a Greek growing up in NY I definitely come from a culture where people make enormous gestures with their hands and arms and even facial expressions…tell us what to do!

  32. I can vouch for this, once I was on a date and guy kept dropping his dessert as he was eating that for the first time. It was so messy and it was an instant turn off for me so I know you can always be yourself but not on first few dates..

  33. First time, I am agree with you. Raw onion and garlic is really annoying and smelly. I love garlic and onion but not on a date.

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